It has been said that eating together is a blessing that fosters connection and gratitude. It can also just be fun! That is why a group of us at St. John the Divine in Courtenay — called “The Restaurantours” — gather once a month to enjoy each other’s company and to sample local restaurants.
This popular program has been happening for decades here at St. John’s. It started as a “singles’ dining club” for people who had no partner; however, it grew into a more all-inclusive group, where all are welcome.
Once a month, about 15 to 20 St. John’s parishioners and friends enjoy eating together at a local restaurant. During the summer months we meet for a supper meal and during the winter months we meet for lunch after church.
This event has become so popular that it is sometimes a challenge to find a restaurant that can accommodate our numbers. So far, we have 22 on our list of restaurants. By far the most popular is White Spot, but our list includes Chinese, Japanese, Indian, Thai and Greek food, and pubs. Some members have likes and dislikes, which we consider as much as possible, but we also have to consider ease of parking as some people have mobility problems.
Presently we have two dedicated coordinators, me (Maureen Polard), and Evelyn Bowers. They call all the members before each meal to determine the number of people who plan to attend. This call seems to be valued as a “connection call” with fellow parishioners who enjoy a phone visit.
In the Bible, shared meals often symbolize unity, fellowship and celebration. In a world increasingly characterized by division and isolation, the simple act of sharing a meal holds deep significance. Eating together serves as an opportunity for believers to build relationships, show hospitality and remember God’s blessings.
